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Gift questions, answered.

Everything below is the stuff people email us about after they have already ordered. It is cheaper for everyone if you read it first.
  • A person makes itNothing here exists until you order it. A small US shop starts your piece after that.
  • The name is freeAlways has been. Adding a name, a date, or a few words costs nothing extra.
  • About five days to makeThen shipping on top. Every deadline we publish already counts both.

Getting it there in time

Will it actually arrive before the holiday?

If you order by the date we publish, yes. Every deadline on our shipping deadlines page already has the making time built in — about five days — plus the days in transit. We did that math so you would not have to.

Why does this take longer than the big sites?

Because there is no shelf of finished mugs somewhere waiting for a name. Your piece does not exist when you click buy. Someone starts it after your order lands. That is slower. It is also the entire point.

I already missed the deadline. Is it over?

No. Gift cards arrive by email in minutes — on December 24, at 11pm, from your phone in a parking lot. The person still ends up with something made for them. They just get to pick it.

When do people usually order for the holidays?

Earlier than you would think. More than half of American shoppers start in October or before, and about four in ten of them say they start early for one reason: they do not want to be refreshing a tracking page in the third week of December.

Putting a name on it

What can I actually put on it?

A first name. A wedding date. A nickname nobody else uses. The year you met. A line from a text message. Honestly, the best ones are usually not names at all — they are the small thing only two people would understand. See how it works.

Does adding a name cost extra?

No. Not now, not at checkout, not as a surprise line item. Personalization is the reason this whole site exists. Charging you for it would be a strange way to run it.

What if I spell it wrong?

This is the one that hurts, so here is the honest version: more than four out of ten personalized orders go out with a mistake the buyer could have caught. Usually a name spelled the way we assume it is spelled. Or a date typed the way we write dates at home, when the shop reads them the American way. An engraved name has no undo button — that is why almost nobody in this business takes it back. So we show your text back to you before you order, and again in your confirmation email. Read it one more time. That is the whole trick.

Can I see it before it is made?

Not a photo of the finished thing — nobody can show you that before it exists. What you do get is your exact text, spelled out and shown back to you before you order, and once more in your confirmation email while there is still time to fix it.

What about dates? mm/dd or dd/mm?

American order: month, then day, then year. Every date box on this site says mm/dd/yyyy right in it, because this is exactly where people slip.

Put a name on it

Secret Santa

You drew one person. The gift goes to them and stops there.

Also safe: a gift for one specific coworker, a teacher, a neighbor, your kid's bus driver.

Leave it blank

White Elephant

Also called Yankee Swap or Dirty Santa. The gift gets opened, stolen, and stolen again.

Nobody in that room drew your name. Funny and useful wins. A stranger's initials do not.

Office parties and gift swaps

Secret Santa — should I put their name on it?

Yes. You drew one person. That gift goes to them and stays with them. A name is what turns "a thing I bought" into "a thing that is mine".

White Elephant, Yankee Swap, Dirty Santa — same answer?

No. The opposite. That gift is going to be opened, stolen, and stolen again. Whoever is holding it at the end never drew your name, and probably does not want a stranger's name on their desk. Pick something funny and genuinely useful, and leave it blank. We would rather tell you that than sell you an engraving you will regret.

What is safe for an ornament exchange?

Put the year on it. Ornaments are the one gift people keep unpacking for the next thirty Decembers, and the year is what makes them stop and remember which one this was.

The shops behind it

Who actually makes my order?

A small shop in the United States. A person at a bench, not a fulfillment center. Every shop here has a name, a country, a rating written by people who bought from them, and a count of how many orders they have finished. Meet them.

Can I talk to the shop before I order?

Yes, and you should if anything is unclear — the sizing, the lettering, whether your nine words will fit. Every shop page has a message button. A two-line question beforehand beats a return afterwards, and returns on personalized work are rarely possible anyway.

Why buy from a small shop instead of a big store?

People give a lot of reasons — it is one of a kind, the money stays in someone's neighborhood, it shows you thought about it. There is one more that comes up constantly: on the other end of the order there is an actual person who notices. There is even a day for it — the Saturday after Thanksgiving, when the whole country is asked to buy small.

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